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Dave S.
post Sep 16 2016, 11:25 AM
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It is my opinion that you owe Dan, and the rest of the club an apology at the very least.


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post Sep 16 2016, 01:08 PM
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QUOTE (Dave S. @ Sep 16 2016, 11:18 AM) *
I agree with EMac "I hope you find peace Colin"

Having said that..... I was not as upset as my brother at first on this, so I was gonna stay back from it. But that Facebook post of yours was way over the line.

I have a few points to make: #1 Colin, you know that you make funky posts ON PURPOSE! Because it is your style or whatever. But you should understand that it can cause confusion when you post like that. You should consider that OTHER people are reading your posts, and they might not understand the post (so why post it so weird in the first place?) I recommend you change your typing habits in the future, to avoid this stuff. (you know it has happened before)

#2 Even if Dan simply mistook your post, he still addressed the issue like a adult man. He did not call you names or anything like that. YOU on the other hand went strait to Facebook and started cussing him out, and then you mentioned the club, and brought up personal crap on the Facebook post that does NOT belong there. You reacted like an immature high school student, in an online public place....... And that brings me to my next point.

#3 At the end of your last post you make the snarky, smartass comment "thanks for posting it on the public forums" .... What!!! You are the one who brought this over to Facebook THE MOST PUBLIC PLACE POSSIBLE!!!! And if you were paying any attention, half the comments were sympathetic to you, or at least they want a peaceful conclusion here. DO NOT accuse them of any attempt to put it here on purpose, it is NOT their fault! They are not "pushing you out"... you are doing that to yourself. Not because OF bullcrap, but because of YOUR bullcrap. You should learn the difference between the two.

#4 You claim no one is hearing your side of things, but you have spent most of your posts, playing the victim, and trying to make this about a joke. YOUR FACEBOOK POST WAS NOT A JOKE!! And until you address that, you shall get no sympathy from me. It is your "venting" on FB that has caused the REAL problem here. If you choose to "VENT" in public, then the public WILL respond to your venting(or expressed feelings). In the future you should "VENT" to your girlfriend, or others close to you..... but do it PRIVATELY!

#5 Yes, it is true that you have helped the club. But don't let that go to your head.... the club has really helped you out as well. Your mine claim is a testament to that. The people who helped you, including Dan, do NOT deserve to be attacked the way you did it.


Thank you Dave, extremely well worded, explanatory and polite! worthy.gif happy112.gif

I completely agree and it's very saddening unfortunately. Hopefully Colin can learn something here (I know I have) and change his choice of actions that cause these re-actions from others! You just can't step on someone else's feelings and then blow it off as a joke when you're called on it. I'm not being to sensitive or pissy or can't take a joke! This club isn't a joke, my life (this club) isn't a joke, and my feelings are not a joke!!

As I said Colin, I have enough respect for myself to call you on it, YOU CROSSED THE LINE! YOU FURTHER IT WITH MORE BAD CHOICES, EVEN DRAGGING THE CLUB INTO IT, BECAUSE I SAID YOU WERE OVER THE LINE!

MOST IMPORTANTLY.....IT'S FOR SURE OK FOR ME TO STICK UP FOR MYSELF WHEN YOU OFFEND ME! IT WILL NEVER EVER BE OK FOR YOU OR ANYONE ELSE TO INVALIDATE MY FEELINGS BY BLOWING IT OFF, CALLING IT A JOKE OR SAYING I'M OVER REACTING/BEING PISSY OR WHAT EVER!


You don't like it Colin, TOO FRICKEN BAD! Get over it and join the grown up's, this is how you handle it when someone is over the line! Don't like the consequence of your action, very simple, start with a different choice of action!

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Nothing meant to anyone else posting in this thread by this comment either... I still believe/say this club has the very best of club members all around!! CP_Member.gif One apple that gets sour doesn't spoil any of the others to my view! Thanks to you all for your support and my personal apology for the club and it's members being slapped in the face like this by another club member, totally uncalled for and not cool! kick_can.gif signs019.gif

Thank you again Dave, so eloquently worded! char092.gif While I also agree, he does owe me, and us all an apology, I'm very old school on this one. You have to earn my respect, an apology will be a good start but his future actions will be how he mends the bridge he's burnt with me and have my respect ever again!

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